Effortlessly Become People’s Attention: the arts of being “Confident.”

The key to what makes people dazzling.

I bet you’ve experienced this unique thing at least once in a lifetime. You were attracted by somebody’s charm at the first sight! They might be strangers you accidentally met on the street, mall, or in other places. They look gorgeous, elegant, and attractive even if they just walk, stand or talk. But somehow, they effortlessly become people’s attention.

We are wondering what makes them dazzling. Maybe simply because of their dresses, makeup, or their body goals? Well, that’s not the key. It is simply because they are confident! Confidence spreads positive auras to people around you, making them attracted.

Being confident and having high self-esteem truly mattered. It will lead you to have less fear and anxiety, be brave enough to try something new, get out of your comfort zone, and start a relationship with new people. Even for some people, confidence makes them get good offers and opportunities.

You don’t need to put out a lot of effort to make people interested in you, but being confident is key! Here are small steps to get convinced:

1. Dress nice and comfortable, because bad dresses bring bad moods. Choose clothes that fit and look good on you. Choose the one that makes you comfortable and happy. Don’t impose yourself to follow the trends or someone else’s style which doesn’t fit with you, just be yourself and confident!
2. Don’t focus on negative possibilities. Instead of thinking about negative options that make you feel judged, small and insecure, you should think positively. Try to imagine how people will be impressed by you, how you will make them happy, laugh, have a good relationship with them, etc.
3. Manage your breath and smile :). These two things will calm you and build positive vibes for you and your surroundings. You can practice managing your breathing and emotion by meditation or doing yoga.
4. Don’t be shy to concede your strengths. Sometimes we’re just too humble and feel not deserve to acknowledge our strengths. But, it’s a fatal misconception. Having high self-esteem will increase our confidence and self-love.
5. Make sure you’re ready and well-prepared. When you have to talk in public, or you need to interact with many people; first, you need to prepare yourself! You can practice the speech or presentation at home. You can prepare some topics to discuss with those people, or maybe get ready with the answers to questions that might be gotten!
6. Help the others. It might sound out of topic, but helping others will make you feel useful, worthy, and grateful for who you are today.

Be confident, spread positive auras around you, and take all its benefits!